12/22/2023 0 Comments Making mr right 2017![]() Keeping with our race analogy, we can’t expect the runners to give their all for a prize that they don’t value. This doesn’t mean that we have men jumping through hoops, but it does mean taking notice of the guy who picks up the phone to call and makes his intentions clear versus the one who sends many mixed signals and leaves you confused. We are available to the ones who value the prize so much that they are willing to put in the extra work it takes to win us. This means that we don’t have to make ourselves available to every man that presents himself to us. In a race, all the runners have the same chance of winning, but only one gets 1st prize. Here are three things to remember when acting like a prize. Right Season 1 (7) 5.5 2013 TV-PG Matchmaker April Beyer enlists three hopelessly single women on an amazing dating experiment, to pose as matchmakers for a house of 14 romantically challenged guys in order to build their perfect man. If we want to be treated like a prize, we need to learn how to act like a prize. We put in a lot of energy to get little attention from a guy that we may be interested in. We want to feel like a prize but often times we don’t. Maybe some do, but I think we can all agree that sometimes women worry too much about getting a man and keeping him. Sometimes we just need to be reminded that we are the prize! A reclusive scientist builds a robot that looks exactly like him to go on a long term space mission. This quote stood out to me the other day “ Act Like a Prize and You will Turn him into a Believer”. It got me to thinking that if women were truly the prize, why do we stress out so much over relationships?ĭo guys run to the mall to buy a new shirt to impress a girl on a date?ĭo they fall asleep reading articles entitled “How to get a girl to notice me”?ĭo they take a cooking class just so they can make their girlfriend the best dinner ever? Talk less, talk more, play hard to get, don’t play games, tell him how you feel, don’t tell him how you feel, wear more heels, sneakers are hot, and the list goes on.Īll the advice is ever changing and it’s hard to keep up with the best way to attract a man. These articles usually tend to reinforce that I’m not good enough and that I need to act a certain way for the right man to fall for me. I’ve read through all the articles only to find myself a little more discouraged. We are told that if we are still single, it’s our fault (either directly or indirectly) and we should be doing A, B & C to win the affection of a man. Magazine articles, books and well meaning friends and family constantly remind us that we are not doing enough. ![]() Unfortunately today women are doing all they can to convince a guy that they are worth having. He knew that she was a gift and he was thankful. ![]() She probably hadn’t shaved or spent tons of money at the salon and definitely hadn’t learned 50 ways to cook chicken to win Adam over. Eve didn’t have to do much to win Adam over in the perfect garden.
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